Goodbye New York City – we’ll miss you!

Dear New York,

You were there for me from the beginning. Before my man, and marriage… there was you. Late night walks & honks hello, you gave me the space to grow into my own person. You’re even more of a romantic than me, because you taught me how to love myself. For that I will always be grateful. But now after 5 years, I have to say goodbye & make room for a new wave women eager to be entranced by your sky-scraping beauty.

I promise I’ll visit, of course I will. And I know you’ll move on, like you always do. But you will always be a part of me. That tough, no-nonsense, driven, forever-a-dreamer part of me. Miss you already.

With love,

Caila

Photography: Hector Javier Photo

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  1. Brenda Guardado
    March 29, 2021 / 9:10 am

    This live letter to NY is adorable 🥰

    • March 29, 2021 / 9:56 am

      aww thank you, it’s how I started my blog 5 years ago 🥰 so felt like a proper goodbye.

  2. Geyssel
    March 29, 2021 / 9:27 am

    Dear Caila, I’ve been following you, for years now. Just want to say your sweet and loving personality is displayed through all your posts. You have such a beautiful light and I’m so happy you’re moving and looking forward to your blogs in the new city!

    • March 29, 2021 / 9:57 am

      This is so kind of you to say, thank you! Can’t wait to share new adventures in a new city!

  3. Kim
    March 29, 2021 / 10:20 am

    Love your smile and personality! They just click and are such an inspiration! Can’t wait to hear where you’re headed to next! Keep being happy cuz it’s contagious!!

  4. Jessica
    March 29, 2021 / 10:37 am

    Hi Caila! So excited for you guys to embark on this next new chapter! My fiancé are about to embark on a new chapter of our own as we are moving NYC in a month! We are starting to look at apartments and I am absolutely in love with yours! Will you be keeping the apartment when you move? If not, do you plan to share info if people are interested in the apartment? Even just knowing the area the building is in would be great as we are also looking in Brooklyn! The best of luck to you and Nick! Cheers to new adventures!

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:49 am

      Oh no way!! You;re going to love new york city!! The building is 220 Water Street in Dumbo, Brooklyn!

  5. Shea
    March 29, 2021 / 10:38 am

    But now we all want to know where you’re headed next! Wishing you the best of luck.

  6. Emily
    March 29, 2021 / 11:01 am

    This letter is adorable! It’s always so bitter sweet leaving a place that helped shape you in such crucial ways but that next chapter is going to be so awesome! Cant wait to hear where you’re going! To Chicago maybe?

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:48 am

      Austin! And yes, you are so kind & insightful – change is bitter sweet for sure. 🥰

  7. March 29, 2021 / 11:28 am

    I’ll miss getting to vicariously live in NYC through you since my visits are always years apart! Can’t wait to see where life’s adventure takes you next. But I also have to say, my immediate thought was, “you guys just got your West Elm room done!” Life’s funny that way. ❤️

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:48 am

      I love seeing your face pop up Christine! Thank you for being a supportive & positive light 💛

  8. Prajula
    March 29, 2021 / 12:54 pm

    Got goosebumps reading this. Can feel the words. I wish you nothing but happiness on your new journey!

    Loads of love,
    Prajula

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:47 am

      Aww change is always an adjustment, but really excited for the next chapter 🥰

  9. Erika
    March 29, 2021 / 7:23 pm

    Much success to you both in your new home city!

  10. Rosana
    March 29, 2021 / 8:50 pm

    Lovely! Please say you are coming back home, Ohio misses you. ♥️

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:46 am

      Aww I miss Ohio too! I luckily still have a lot of family in Cleveland 💛

  11. GG
    March 29, 2021 / 9:35 pm

    So where are you heading next?! Xo

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:46 am

      Texas! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  12. Alexis
    March 30, 2021 / 1:53 am

    I absolutely loved this. You’re my favorite!

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:46 am

      Aww thank you girly 🥰

  13. Natalie B
    March 30, 2021 / 8:01 am

    New York looks so beautiful and you are so lucky to call such a beautiful city your home! I have been a fan of yours for years now since bachelor days and loved watching you grow! Where are you moving to next? 😃

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:46 am

      Aww thank you so much! We are headed to Austin, Texas! Woo Hoo!

  14. Donna
    March 30, 2021 / 10:01 am

    ❤️ where is your next adventure? While you talk about what NY has done for you, it should also be noted what you brought to NY – More warmth and vulnerability.

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:45 am

      We are headed to Austin, TX!

  15. Jessica
    April 7, 2021 / 7:29 am

    Hi caila i’ve been following you since you started to bachelor until now 🙂 i love seeing your post from instagram. Just wanted to say Thank you! . Thank you for being part of our lives too. You are kind,sweet , and loving person. I wish you all the best! We will miss you!

    • April 23, 2021 / 7:45 am

      This means so much, so happy to have you as a friend from afar for so long! It’s going on 5+ years! -Caila

  16. Sarah Tan
    May 10, 2021 / 12:45 am

    hey caila! i’m about to move to nyc for school and was wondering if you had any advice/recommendations for taking on such an intimidating city

    • May 14, 2021 / 1:37 pm

      Hmm.. I think the best thing I could recommend would be don’t be afraid to say “no”. It will keep you very busy with friends, school, etc. – don’t forget to make time for YOU!